The next stage, maybe

[AliSuddenly]

Hey Julia,
I cant sleep either! Too much Guiness I think. I hope you are ok, I am not surprised you are spooked... seeing as noone has been in, do you think that it could be somehting like.. a loose wire and maybe the cat disturbed it, so the light came on again?? Or is that a room your H might have been in, to get something??

I sort of doubt he would come round and let himself in without contacting you, as he hasnt been in much contact latelyt and he wouldnt have known if you were in or out.. and if you looked out, he wouldnt have risked going in and turning lights on in case you came back.

So maybe that part of your email isnt necessary, but you could ask him WHEN you see him.

I am pretty amazed he just sent off the form to you, with still not discussing it.. seems to me he is getting tough Julia, he has told you he is moving to a rented place and he is clearly stressed about money.. look how fast he moved to reduce the 'leccy bill. I think he is getting a bit self-serving...

How about...

'Hiya, sorry I didn't reply yesterday my phone ran out of battery.(lose next bit)

I have meetings all day today and then in the evening I am seeing E and this is the only chance I will get as you know I only see her once a year. as she is off to Mexico for a while after tomorrow. I am free most of the weekend and Monday and Wednesday night. Do any of those suit? Let me know which you can make. I dont feel comfortable signing the form until we've had chance to discuss the implications.

Thanks
J

...what do you think?