At the bottom of the forum list is archived threads. It will take you to many, many threads that were helpful to me when I first came here.
As far as you h having some things different, they don't always follow the six stages. It really sounds like your H is in MLC to me. As time goes on and you sit back and watch you will see your h doing alot of what is described here.
Like I said, my H used to tell me that nothing was wrong with him. It was me. He liked the way he was and didn't want to change. He said no C and no AD's. I let him find his own way to solve his problems.
Be good to yourself and please take care of yourself.
