I think you are right about the jealousy thing. I know it has to piss her off to see the bills paid, no bills lying around the house, my house paperwork neatly filed, house clean, D17 not complaining about her life or anything. I do waht I can for my family and home, then for me. It makes me feel good, so i like it in that order.
I posted over at my post in Walk-Away-Wives, that she called me about a brake problem with her car. I did her rear brakes about 2 months ago. when I was being the "I'll do whatever so you'll talk to me and appear to be coming back" me. He left. So I went and checked it out because she does drive my D17 to her house every now and then, so safe is safe. Told her to take it to the dealer, fluid is low, probably the booster leaking. get it done before it fails. she asked about putting in brake fluid and i told her to pick it up on her way home. I won't get into the whole thing, but she seemed upset, not mad but upset. Like she expected me to do it, she definitely didn't think I would come into her work and see her face to face, she thought I'd call her and give her the update.
I showed her that she is no longer in control of my feelings, I am no longer intimidated by her presence and she most definitely got my "as if" cool and collected attuitude. Finished out conversation and left, said bye.
She thanked me and called out a have a nice day to me. i had a couple of words for her too, but i let it slide. I love her, she is beautiful and she is not in her right mind. She needs to get rid of OM and start doing things for her like I did for me. then if she wants back, it will work. I ain't bringing in her baggage.
