Hey Jeff! Amy, you're funny! but I kind of agree with teh essenial message, to stand up to her, turn and face her, not skulk, or go passive-agressive.. to ASK her when somethng crops up, in the moment...to show some emotion? some anger? Some tears? Some passion? Or just be assertive with her! Would that be a 180?? Like when I asked if you were afraid of her.. you seem to let stuff slide by, well thats how it seems from how you post it? Maybe biting your tongue has kept you M.. but as Lisa would surely say.. if you experiment and monitor results and biting your lip (for 3 1/2 years) is not working... do something different!!!
I always said I wished I had your chance.. shes still there isnt she?
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread