He has been mean at times, cruel other times, but never abusive.
I hate to see this because he has has hit you and pushed you in the past, no? Why is that not abuse to you?
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She deserved EVERYTHING she got and then some, just sorry I did it WHERE I did it.
Wow. That's scary. Is that what you are teaching your daughters, that violence is ok as long as you can get away with it?
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He didn't console anyone, he ran like a coward.
He stayed with OW. He did nothing to help you.
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I did what I did because of what SHE did, it had NOTHING to do with H, nor was it for ANY reaction out of him.
Sorry, don't believe you.
a new's previous post was spot on. Dead on. Please TOH, I think you need some counseling to see that you are a wonderful person. That your H is using you. That your H isn't turning around any time soon. That you have to move on without him before he even begins to see what he would be losing.
