God grant me the patience and the strength...9

[theotherhalf]

an2m, I really value your opinion, thoughts, advice, and freindship. But you really don't have a clue.

My M may not have always been the best. My H may not be the H he should/could be. He has his faults, don't get me wrong, but don't we all. He has been mean at times, cruel other times, but never abusive. Our lives REALLY are not like that. No exuses, no pretend, no denial. That is fact. My M has been full of freindship, kindness, loyalty, love, honor, faith, but not always perfect. Wouldn't have wanted it anyother way. This was all before MLC. Since then it has been totally the opposite.

Believe what you want. It doesn't matter. Your entitled to your opinion. But your not here. You have not walked in my shoes or in my life. My H was a GOOD GOOD man before MLC. I believe with all my heart that he is still there somewhere. No pretending...that's faith.