Hi Alex, I asked that question on T2L stich. Some took their rings off. My H moved out Oct 1, but I have chosen to wear my ring at this time. My H has only worn his ring first year even though he was not running around till this year. It is a personal decision. I feel I want to stand my my marriage even though I am the only one of the 2 of us that feels that way for now. Have I thought of taking it off, many times -- but it also makes me feel safe right now since I do not want to give out a signal that I am free. I feel too vulernable right now and don't want to appear as if I am available. As I said you have to do what you feel you are ok with.


Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09