you know I've lurked on your sitch here & there..and I wanted to offer my support. At the end of the day, sometimes we need to choose US..our children and ourselves (along w/our sanity). Addiction of any kind only adds to the stress when one party is trying alone to save a marriage. You have fought this fight with strength, determination and, above all, honor. You have shown your son it is NOT ok to treat a woman like this, and you are a model for your daughter to make better 'choices' in men than you & I did. It's been a long, tough road. I am very, very proud of you & I hope you find at least 1/2 the joy I have in reclaiming my life. Only time will show you its true reward...
