Glad to help, If this is MLC, remember she didn't ask for this. It helps if you look at this as a temporary mental illness. The crazy behavior is only a quick fix of happy to her. They become similar to an addict. They only focus on themselves and the quickest way to make the feelings and emotions go away, paying no mind to the fact it is only temporary.
It is a process that she and only she can figure out. It has to play out until the end. Nothing you can do but be kind, stay out of the way when the you know what hits the fan, and most importantly take care of your kids and yourself. Keep living life the best you can.
