But, as Tomato pointed out...you can't control what he does.
I understand that you feel that your decision about hunting tonight has an impact on his decision. But, it doesn't. He's changed his mind about tonight...if you don't hunt, he's not going to do the b'day thing tonight anyway. He's already decided not to that, or he wouldn't have suggested the hunting.
What he does on Saturday...is what he'll do.
And, like Tomato, I'm praying for you!!!
Hugs to you!!! Amy
Me 39 H 36 S 7 S 4 T 15 M 12 H out 8/1/08 OW confirmed 8/6/08 D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!