I for one can't believe that you would become bitter to anyone or anything!!!! That being said, I did find myself getting bitter towards my h somewhat. I had to pull myself back and think of what he was going through. Then I felt pity and sorrow for him.
I really think it is a normal feeling we go through during this.
Val,
Hi twinnie! You sound great. Your H is still fumbling around, huh? I can't believe that he still hasn't POPPED out of the tunnel yet! It sounds like he is trying to make amends to the family and that is a start!