Hi Cinders, I am sorry your friends think you are becoming bitter. Your friends really don't know whether your H will come back or not.
A GF told me recently that she would not be with her BF if she had listened to her sister and friends. And now they are happy again (OK it was not MLC which is slightly different). So do what you think is right for you to do.
ACJ and naej gave you some good advice.
Have a lovely week-end and enjoy tomorrow. Take care. (((HUGS)))
