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Hugs to you this morning!!! You sound a little better...are you???

Love ya!
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BG-have a good day and send osme tof that meat my way.


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hey amy and K. idk amy how I am, he was going to stay home today, but went in anyways a while ago. nervous to see if he keeps his word on seeing his S today with US instead of sat.

sure thing Kel. we have plenty of tags, so we will have plenty of meat!


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Cool. Did you get the chicken recipie? You will. Have a good day honey and just keep smiling no matter what he does.


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K thanks for the recipe, sounds great! i am excited to make it.

I am telling you men are impossible. H is insisting I go deer hunting tonite, he wont let me go alone anymore, probably a good thing, BUT that means he cant be with his s tonite and see him for his bday, WHICH will be the reason he will use for going to the special family party saturday!
this is rediculous!!!!!!


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(((BG))) it surely is ridiculous. I'm sorry its still drama. Heres hoping you find some peace. (((hugs)))


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{{BG}} peace and hugs my friend!

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the thing is i cant win!! if i reject the hunting, he will be angry, and then it will be but i tried to show you that our m was so important, allowing him to have sat, with the fam party, if i go then it will be I missed my s bday nite because i was with you!

WTF am i supposed to do???????


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Whatever you want to...if you want to hunt, do it. If you don't, don't. You have to quit worrying so much about what he's gonna do and say. He's not your responsibility right now...you are! If you hunt and he goes to the party, he's crossed the line. If you hunt and he doesn't go, then he's sticking with the boundaries for now. If you don't hunt and he goes, he's crossed the line. If you don't hunt, and he doesn't go, he's sticking with the boundaries for now.

You see...what you choose tonight has absolutely no bearing on what he'll choose on Saturday. Think about it...he'll do what he's gonna do regardless of what you do.

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ditto what Amy says...

remember the first thing that we learn in DB. We can only control OURSELVES.

((((BG))))


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