Maybe I should be in piecing part 4?

[Hope4us]

Ok, here's my one allowed post today

Come on now.....I don't believe that is what was said.

Come on now, that was a joke, that's why I put the smiley face.

I really just got busy with work right after that yesterday and was busy all this morning and most of the afternoon.

But I took what BA was saying to heart. A couple months ago I had done a good job of detaching from the sitch and GAL and then we went on vacation and CONNECTED and when we got back and she pulled back, it threw me for a loop.

And since that time, as I've felt myself approaching WAS status myself, I have been posting more. And yesterday I was really considering throwing in the towel so I was venting here.

I decided last night that I needed to stop posting so much, DETACH again and just relax a bit.

So I'm not mad. I didn't take offense to anything that was said. I know you guys want the best for me (and everyone here) and sometimes we all need a little 2x4 (and sometimes a 2x8) to snap out of stuff.

And I'm glad I got the 2x4. I really thought a lot last night and we HAVE come a long way. And W is talking about our future. Is it as fast as I'd like? NO. But I'm not going to worry about it until the move details are more set and then I'll have the talk everyone here has been saying I need to have.

I thought about how even with the pullback after vacation that we were making what I consider progress. But after I told her about the move she retreated more. And I understand her side of it even if it's for F'd up reasons.

Ok, I could go on and on, but I won't. I agree with WDID and TAL that she's not going anywhere. Maybe I'm wrong and will get a surprise, but I don't think so. So when the move happens I'll tell her what I need to move forward and if she doesn't want to play along, it's dark time for me and she can figure it out on her own.