While I was out getting food for our dinner, H called to chat. He was wondering what dinner was... If I was picking it up near him, or bringing it from home, cooking it or take out... He wondered if I'd like to go out to eat. I told him that I had dinner tonight, and he can take care of it another night.
We chatted a few more times over the phone before he had to go and I had to rush home to get ready.
When I got to his apt he had to let me in and had an 'oh geez' look on his face when he saw the picnic basket. I am sure he was a little apprehensive wondering what was up... I went up to the apt and got it all set up while he was out walking the dogs. When he came in it was a moment of wondering how this would go over. His initial words were that the candlesticks were going to get knocked over by the dogs (they didn't). We put the dogs away, and when we sat down I said what I was thankful for- health, him being done with his tests, and most of all for sitting across from my best friend. He was really touched and gave me a great big hug.
He complimented me on the dinner many times, that night, and this morning. I spent the night over again, and he was the one who kept on saying for me to get closer to him in bed so we could cuddle! After I went home this morning, be called again to say how nice it was.
I think I really created something special and he felt it.
You guys are right. Big risks have to potential to have big rewards.
I think I should go out with my girlfriends tonight and see if we can set up a date for friday to keep things fresh... And him wanting me...
Me-36 H-30 T-7yr, M-3yr DivorceBusting Saved my marriage! sep 6-08 to 12-08. Together again, things are good!
