Firstly you have to remember that your friends only know what you tell them. So if they only hear you talk about what you don't like H doing etc they are likely to come to the conclusion that they have. Try not to talk to them about H and if you have to try and make it as positive as you can. That will also help you to feel more positive (by the way this is pot calling kettle black )

As for whether H is coming back or not: Don't think about, don't dwell on it and show the world that you can and are coping by yourself. Maybe thier perception is that the convos you have with them about H is centred around him coming back. Try and change that if you can.

((((((((((((Cinders)))))))))))))))))


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15