There is no question that what matters (to her) is her interpretation! And that I can't change that. I know I could have done better. I've apologized a million times. I've apologized when I don't think there was anything to apologize for. (A mistake, I think.) It's never been enough. If she chooses to see things a certain way, at some point I can't do anything to change that. I think I've come to the conclusion that despite the fact I'm not perfect, or even close, it really isn't about me.
Amy, if you want to say something, and it could help, thow it out there!
