Hope - I have that same feeling.....H has not paid his father rent in two months...H is living in a rental house that his father owns. I know his father is not going to put up with it much longer so he will have to move but where? The only place would be with his mom in a retirement community or with her. If he goes with her he will loose his son for sure. His son's mother will not allow that. Oh well, nothing I can do but take care of me.

I did not see the post about someone emailing you to expose them. Did you respond? Did they find out on their own? Wow...they would both be fired right?

I was looking through some old emails cleaning my folders up and came across an email my H sent to me last year on 11/21 and it said this: "You are the bomb!! You make me better!! You make me laugh,cry and horny all at the same time!!! You Rock!!
I'm the luckest man in the world!! All the guys want a wife like you!! But to bad cause I got her!!! Love you!!"

I thought to myself....wow I read this and it was like I was reading an email he has sent to OW. He said those exact same words about being the luckiest man in the world to OW.

Its things like this that make me think it was all just words and there was no true meaning behind them.

Me35/H35
D16/SS14
M-1yr/known H 18yrs
1st Bomb: 4/26 OW35
2nd Bomb: 8/17 OW21
Moved out 8/21/08
H filed D on 9/9/08

God determines who walks into your life...it's up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.