That all said, I do wonder if the MLC cycle is nearing it's end and she's beginning to return to "normal". If that is the case I need to do a bit of soul searching about, do I want to reconcile if that opportunity does arise. Really that's what's going through my mind right now.
Do they ever return to normal? Don't know about you X but mine has been through so much and done so much damage that she is forever changed in reality. Some times over the last few months when she was feeling "friendly" I allowed myself to view her through the lense of what she "used to be", even though that was not what was in front of me.
It is tough, just keep everything in perspective and above all guard your heart. Getting letdown yet again because of unrealistic expectations sucks. Perhaps the best bet is to plow ahead with the new life and if she ever catches up, then you can evaluate at that time. Don't put anything on hold for her right now...
