Ok, here's my one allowed post today

It's amazing how up and down she is. Last night she was fine. We talked about her day, talked about Christmas gifts, talked about my day, talked about the kids. Just talked.

My work Christmas party is tomorrow. We'd discussed it a number of times, but W never said out right if she was going or not. She knows a couple people who work for me know of her affair (my admin was telling me she was sleeping with OM for MONTHS before I figured it out. How's that for blind?).

So I said "are you going to my Christmas party?" She replied "I don't know, when is it"? Now she knows, we've talked about it a number of times. So I said "Friday". She made some noise like she didn't remember. She said "I don't know". I replied, "It's your choice, but I would like for you to come with me". She never said "yes, I'll go", but after I told her I'd like her to come she was in an even better mood than before. And she started talking implying she was going.

So what is it with her. She did the same thing with going to my mom's Sunday. Does she just need to feel in control of everything, or is this an issue with her, that in the past, I just assumed she would go and never asked her?

And oh great. She told me last night that she might be going out to dinner with EGF tonight. She said, "I've only seen EGF once since I moved buildings two weeks ago". She just won't let the twit go will she? Heck, maybe it being almost two weeks since she's been in her office and around EGF is why the last couple days she's been better.

Who knows?

Talk to you TOMORROW.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.