I remember some of your posts from the Sep forum about her getting sympaty and comfort for you. Just be careful. I gave stbx understanding, was a listening ear, he'd call me when he was loosing it so I could talk him down, I mean, he'd confide in me his worst fears. But that was all he wanted, just someone to talk to, for after a month or so of that he showed up one day with a gf (who is now living with him) and didnt' think he had to tell me or even give me a courtesy heads up about it. Don't a an emotional blanket for her, because you might expect some feelings back from her and all she could be wanting is just someone to talk to because she is lonely, and there is nothing worse that having an R sorely because one is lonely.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
