Trying2Live-Post #6

[hope3343]

T2L, where are you? Did you computer go on the fritz again?? I hope all is well.

Yesterday was an ok day. Heard from our good friend who now works in China. He e-mailed saying how upset he was about our marriage and asking about our D15. I told our friend that I told H that our friend now knew about the A. (only did not tell him it was his coworker.). Our friend asked to stay at our house for a week or 2 during the summer with his family. I told him fine.
I go to my weekly meeting and H is there. I semi-ignored him. After the meeting I usually try to walk out with him. But I just got up after the meeting and walked out without even looking at H.
I am home later and my phone rings. It is H. He asks was I supposed to pick up D15 from practice. Duh it is 5:25 and she is supposed to be picked up at 5:30. So I said no she is getting ride and H says you never told me today if she needed a ride and you left the meeting quickly (180??) Then I said I got a nice email from our friend, and H says so did I. I said you did and H says well I guess he knows. I said but I did not tell him with who ...yet. H said he was going to e-mail him back..yeah right. Then we talk about finances and H says he needs to take money out of his savings plan. He is basically putting about $1000 a month on his credit card and paying minimum balance. Now he is hitting our future savings. I am pretty aggravated. This OW is a black spider and she wants to be wined and dined. But I plan on taking some from my savings plan but putting it into a CD for each of my daughters to protect some of my savings, then after the new year take another amount out and do the same thing. Trying to balance the financial playing field if H asks for D.
Well one day at a time. At least H is getting a reality check on finances and living on his own. I wonder if H is going to try and move in with OW since he is having trouble making the rent on his $1200 apt.