Not sure what to make of this...

[catfan]

Hey gang, it's been a good while since I last posted anything but now I would like to get input from y'all.

We've been D'd now since early Sept. Not much contact and usually only email. In person contact has been cordial and conversations light with a positive tone but clearly we both not wanting to get "personal".

I'd asked her to box up the remaining things of mine in the house, some books, photos, china and a few other knickknacks. It took her weeks but I finally got them just before Thanksgiving. While unpacking the 4 boxes I found the photo albums she chose for me, in one were photos of the first 10 years together. Interestingly a dozen of photos removed and if I recall they were all of me or us together.

Some additional info, I have a phone that's on the family plan and a few weeks ago we discussed how I don't really use it and how she could save the $20/mn if we dropped it. She thinks that's a good idea and tells me she'll drop the phone.

Then on Thanksgiving she calls D12s mobile to talk with the girls which I was glad that she did. Then she asked to speak to me, I answered but didn't initiate any conversation. It sure felt like she wanted to talk but didn't know how to start. (I'm the talked between us.) So I thanked her for calling and wished her a happy Thanksgiving. BTW, she had previously told me she was going to our beach house for T-day which was what we as a family had done for years. The impression I got was that where ever she was she was alone.

Then on Saturday she calls my family plan phone to "talk to the girls." Strange since we agreed to drop that phone to save her money.

Now onto last night, she calls my family phone again and starts "Hey I just called to say hi and to talk to the girls." I greet her and actually initiate conversation thinking she wants to talk just isn't sure how to start. So I ask her about the company she's just started and how its going. She chats away about it for 2-3 minutes. Once she's a bit done I tell her it was nice to chat and she say "yes it was", I offer "call anytime, always nice to chat, here's the girls" and I pass the phone off to the kids.

So I don't want to read anything into this but her behavior has been a bit odd, calling on a phone she wants to get rid of, acting as if she wants to chat and a few other odds things.