As far as what to do about H's email, he is asking about your D9 so I would answer him. I know you already told him, but do you really expect that he truly listened? Maybe seeing it in writing will help him to remember.
How about something along the lines of "I appreciate you taking the initiative to sign the kids up for the reading program. That was very thoughtful.
D9's treatment begins on xxxx with xxxx(whatever treatment she begins first).
Everyone is doing fine thank you.
SMW"
Add your personality and be brief. Answers his questions, validates his effort, gives him the information he apparently missed. To the point.
Be GREAT today. God will move that mountain sweetie, you know that.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!