I know, and I will be so much better off without H in my life!!! I do have a $ question though: Ok, the judge awarded me temp. alimony of $1200 altho my bills/expenses and I mean just basic food, utility, is at least $1900 so about $700 short. H gets $2400 a month twice me I guess with the theory that he has lots of credit card bills and student loan debt and the mortgage. The judge told him not to pay my car loan or the mortgage and to file for bankruptcy. He's run up so much credit card debt this year he increased it from something like $10,000 to $40,000 in the past year starting when he started the affair. The question is: if he is filing for bankruptcy, they are trying to get me to file with him to discharge his debts, I'm thinking he's not actually paying those credit card debts. His actual basic bills are about $400 rent, $100 car payment, and maybe the cell phone bill. Doesn't have computer (uses OWs and his friend's) or cable tv (same thing.) or any other bills. So if he's not paying his bills as I suspect probably has over $1500 a month spending money and I'm $700 short each month. Can that be right?
