I agree with Love..you don't necessarily lose your personality. However, I do know a gal that was really heavy and then lost the weight and became quite skinny..she definitely DID do much more flirting and had much more "guy attention" obviously and it did cause problems in her relationship with her fiance.
Also, it will definitely give you more confidence more than likely because you will feel better about yourself and hopefully that will spill over into other areas of your life. On the other hand, it really makes you have to "deal with your issues" because you don't have the weight to "hide behind"..
So, I don't think they lose their personalities as much as get sucked into getting "new" flattering attention and not knowing how to handle it, i.e. if someone has always been "pretty" they are use to it, would blow it off, or just take it and go on, if you know what I mean by that?
I'm sure that really didn't clear up anything LOL!! But, I hope it helped some
Tawnya
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