Morning!! It is a good (difficult for me) book. I mentioned it to the C yesterday and she said it is "almost for professionals". I am not sure she knew what I was talking about... Of course my problem is -like you- I dont have a spouse to...practise.
I have this idea that your wife has made the decision to live as roomates until your financial state changes. I think that is her inner thought process. She is actually stalling the progress becasue she is not interested in it. She "has made her mind, she has given you chances, she has waited, too late now...". I hope I am wrong but that's my feeling. She cant recognise anything, she is in a completely different mode than you are.
That's where an C could help despite the fact she isnt changing now... Love always K
