Life in the Rough - A Liar's Game?

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Morning ladies, it is only 26 here today and we are getting light snow. The roads were so slick this morning that a car lost control right in front of our house, rolled over 3 times and landed in the field. H was out loading salt when it happened. He ran over and had to smash the windows to get the woman out. She was not badly hurt, but very shook up. Lots of emergency service vehicles so it took me a while to get out of my drive. Jeesh....why don't people slow down? Turns out there was a layer of ice under the loose snow that is falling.

My shredding ritual was nice yesterday. I took the thank you note that I have been saving and lately carying around with me. I posted it here a couple of days ago. Anyway, it was such a huge sorce of hurt and betrayal for me, so I prayed my favorite prayers and then took it into our copy room and ran it thru our shredder. Gone. And it was amazing. The hurt that she caused with the hypocrisy of her words was gone. I still have pain from her betrayal, but her forked tongued words don't have power over me any more. She is a stupid, insincere woman without the ability to look beyond her own narcissistic wants. I have shredded her words, and very soon I shall shred her face. She will be out of my life, forever.

Kel, don't worry too much about his climbing all over me again comment. That is still the MLC control thing. My own H said something similar the other day and it was a sudden jerk back for me to his tunnel. Later in the day when he called me to tell me that he had to go and complete his talent bank stuff on line at their location I calmly told him that was the reason that I suggested he go there in the first place to do it. I was not trying to "control" him, merely help him get the task done in the easiest way possible. I suspected that he would have trouble doing it from home and would need their one on one assistance. It had nothing to do with control. He understood.

They will go in and out of the tunnel for some time to come. It isn't as bad as it once was and the time out of the tunnell gets to be better and happier all the time.