The subject line is from an old Elton John song, all you music buffs)

Right now W is not doing well at all. She is experiencing panic attacks and has called me about 4 times in the last 48 hrs sounding scared and confused. It worries me. She is trying to get back in touch with her counsellor, which I thought she should never have stopped seeing.

Part of her present difficulty is no doubt stemming from the recent drinking incident, which negatively affects the value of the anti-depressant medication she is on.

She also wants to quit her job and perhaps become a full time student and get her masters. This is her solution to find a life that makes her happy.

Of course, she is looking for the 'geographical' solution, not changing those things about herself that makes her life miserable wherever she goes.

When will this butterfly land ?

Last edited by native; 12/04/08 01:22 PM.
Me 47, W 32,D 6,
Met 11 yrs. ago, M 7
Bomb 4/08/08, Sep. 8/10/08, Div. 8/10/09