Truelove and BeingMe, thanks for popping in and asking about me, I have been rather busy shopping and having my garden all fenced in and made neat and tidy somedays I dont get to pop on here, everything is well, havent heard anymore from aunt, to be truthful I aint really bothered at least I did my bit and let her know my gratitude, the rest is up to her. One thing did happen yesterday when I came home there was an xmas card through the post from ex to son, gone are the nice thoughtful words he wrote last year saying how much he loved him and get in contact, this year in a scruffy writing it just read "HOPE TO SEE YOU SOON, DAD", I gave it to son and he just threw it on the floor and said what is the point of that, it is strange that he sent the card so early we used to get our cards the week before christmas when he had wrapped his presents. But I suppose it is good that he took a moment to remember his child and even send a card, more than he did for his birthday. Wonder how he feels that it as come around to christmas once more and he still has son's presents from last year hidden in the wardrobe at the love nest. It cant be easy for him I know, but why cant he bury his pride and step up to the plate, for his sons sake, it is hurting ex but it is himself that is hurting himself, oh well we will have a brilliant christmas as we have all the time we have been on our own, god bless you two soulmates