I know dark is hard. I have been dark for a little over a month. Ex is asking the kids lots of questions about me. He even called me the day before Thanksgiving to see how I was. I took the call, but was very brief.
You have to let their world fall apart. You being out of the picture, helps them miss you as well as see that their issues are about them, not you.
Your ex relies on you so much, she is going to really miss you.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
