Hey thats great Jeff! T will be happy! (I'm yet to order mine).
I'm glad to hear that the VA plan was kind of your sons and also that its probably not happening anyway. I am like yuo, I dont get mad really.. but one thing that did strike me is, you just didnt say anything at all to your W.. like you didnt react, in the moment.. you waited. I wondered if this was a DB thing, or, if you arent a little afraid of your W!? You could have just turned round and asked her straight away, not even get angry, but just some open communication? (I've asked you about this before!)
Al xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread