Wow Lisa.. I put my hand on ex's knee last time I saw him and we talked, but I dont think it sent any message to his brain! But then he was drunk and crying the first time, so that probably didnt help
Hmm...well, if you're going to email, as to a friend, about visiting, I think you might put a little more in the email than that? A how yu doing, fancy meeting up... tricky as I am sure you are concious you dont want to pursue and it may make him twitchy, but perhaps its better than phoning. Although, how did you leave it after the last call.. did he say he would ring you?
Al x
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread