I have told her that about the non-cuss words but I honestly don't remember what she said.
She said she was never interested even when we went to some place about a year ago, we have been married for 2 years. So I don't know how long before that, this was the case. She said she was just interested in the place itself but not with me. She did buy me things which she earned from her job but always says see I bought u stuff. I don't say that because I don't want to seem I do things just so I can stuff it in the other person face, which honestly nobody should be pressured to do. She would always use that against me, see I bought you stuff.
I'm so jealous of your realtionship that is awesome both of you guys are working on it togehter. Please keep doing that and let me know how things proceed. The thing that scared me and hurt me is that I would have to do everything and she could later say see he did have problems and he needed the help where as she didnt do anything therefore she was ok and nothing was her fault. Where in fact she would get mad as well, cuss and use non-cuss words. But she said hey i'm the one leaving you should try to convince me to stay. That's what makes me upset. Plus I did read some stuff on the net which I told her, plus I made list of things but she said hey that's not enough.
She has filed for the paperwork and I feel and 95% sure it's over. I feel pressure from Family has really made it worse for her. I have been working out, looking at classes improving myself, talking to friends family.
