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Re: Divorce is around the corner! Truelove #1664003 12/03/08 03:15 AM
Joined: Apr 2007 Posts: 3,481 G glamgirl Member
glamgirl Member G Joined: Apr 2007 Posts: 3,481	Oh my TL. These MLC'ers are really messed up. Your post made me laugh. Could your h be thinking hmmmmm what would life be like without TL? Did you send anything back? You could always say something like h you are so right. Thanks for thinking of us like this or thanks for thinking of me. We should stay friends I like that idea. I don't know TL, just a thought! Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good "Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"

Re: Divorce is around the corner! Truelove #1664741 12/03/08 08:09 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA Valentine Member
Valentine Member Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA	OMG! I am so sorry I did not reply...I have not been checking the boards... How are you sugar? My divorce is almost final. Sigh. SO sad...but not...does that make sense? I promist I will check in regularly!!! Love you and think of you often! Love, Valentine Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day "Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

Re: Divorce is around the corner! Valentine #1664988 12/03/08 10:34 PM
Joined: Jan 2000 Posts: 28,358 Likes: 167 job Member
job Member Joined: Jan 2000 Posts: 28,358 Likes: 167	True, I think your h is just plain nuts. Now, he's back using the nice tactics to rope you back in. He really is a sly manipulator. If they can't get you roped in w/nastiness, they'll try being nice and then back and forth. Please be very careful. Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.

Re: Divorce is around the corner! job #1665039 12/03/08 11:20 PM
Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 3,334 T Truelove OP Member
OP Truelove Member T Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 3,334	Hi glamgirl and Snodderly, Quote: I think your h is just plain nuts. !!!! - LOL - I am still laughing at this sentence! You are so right. I have not yet replied to H and I am still thinking of what to reply. As you said before, I have to take his words with a grain of .... Have a good day. Last edited by Truelove; 12/03/08 11:21 PM.

Re: Divorce is around the corner! Valentine #1665041 12/03/08 11:23 PM
Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 3,334 T Truelove OP Member
OP Truelove Member T Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 3,334	Hi Vali, Thanks for your post. I am glad to see that you are OK. I left an answer on your thread. Yes, it makes sense what you wrote. Take care. Buy the way, I was invited to a birthday party by my niece's daughter who will be 3 soon!!! She was so cute on the phone! Last edited by Truelove; 12/03/08 11:28 PM.

Re: Divorce is around the corner! Truelove #1665064 12/03/08 11:54 PM
Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 5,369 England A ACJ Member
ACJ Member A Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 5,369 England	Quote: I have not yet replied to H and I am still thinking of what to reply. Maybe no reply would tell him all he needs to know. Maybe life w/o TL at the end of a phone or an email might just find him fighting for air and a 'lifeline'. What you got to loose by trying this? Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15

Re: Divorce is around the corner! ACJ #1665163 12/04/08 02:07 AM
Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 7,941 SW USA M MidwesternGirl Member
MidwesternGirl Member M Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 7,941 SW USA	TL: THinking of you. What is that saying: Silence is golden!! The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19

Re: Divorce is around the corner! MidwesternGirl #1665268 12/04/08 04:38 AM
Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 2,099 H happynow Member
happynow Member H Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 2,099	True, My H used the same tactics, he was really nice when he wanted something & really nasty when he didn't get his way & would threaten me with something, like taking the dogs from me & telling me he would not give me the house. He also told his brother & SIL that he might have to pay me alimony but he would be sending it to jail b/c he was going to press criminal charges against me for getting into his email. Well, I'm not in jail & I still have the dogs & the house. Stay strong!! And, I agree with MWG, Silence is golden!!! Thinking of you!!!! ((((HUGS))))

Re: Divorce is around the corner! happynow #1665685 12/04/08 05:07 PM
Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 331 UK E Elliecat Member
Elliecat Member E Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 331 UK	Hi Tl Just wanted to send you a big hug and say hi. Hang on in there. The yoyo game is such a pain and yes very manipulative.

Re: Divorce is around the corner! Elliecat #1665729 12/04/08 05:41 PM
Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,791 Cinderellaman Member
Cinderellaman Member Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,791	Hi TL ! (((((((hugs))))))) That niece of yours sounds very cute ! Are you going to her party ?! xxx Love Cinders xxx "In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus http://miesblogspot.blogspot.com/

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