Cleaning out Clutter - ? For Men

[MsMelancoly]

So my little journal for today.

I wasn't going to contact my H & wait, but I decided to send him an email, since it was snowing today & yucky driving. I probably should have kept dark - but thought what the h*ll.

I said: Hope you have a safe drive home tonight (it's messy out there).

H email back 10 minutes later saying: thanks, more lay offs today. scarry.

I said: that is scary. how are you holding up?

He emailed back: ok over worked over welmed and under paid. Got to go now talk to you later

I said: i totally agree that you are!!! always thought so too. leter back at ya.


So this is the most we have emailed back & forth since maybe April!! I think I'm going to take Julia's lead with making contact with my H. I'm going to be friendly, caring, kinda business like, little emotion & keep a safe distance from his personal life until he is ready to share more. I will keep my contact minimal though.

Maybe, I'm trying to back pedal, side step my way out of this cheese tunnel!! Although it feels like a tight rope