Hi Julia, I agree you have been very strong & making some wise choices. So Bravo!!! The email was really good.

I think you should keep your contact w/your H business like. True, there is no real emotion on his side, but contact is contact. R talks didn't work for me. Maybe treat him like an ice cube - that you slowly have to melt.

No matter how you have acted, I think pure & simple he's afraid of you. Whether or not your reaction was a 180 for you, I'm sure he didn't expect your reaction. He expected you to be angry & pissed off & you weren't. So you have him thinking....
Stay strong & keep up the good PMA! \:\)


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)