Hey marisol, I agree with you that look at our H's jumping into relationships and some people waiting for years. We know when enough is enough. Since I am really trying to work on myself I am just taking my time and trying to discover who I am after all these years. It took me a long time to start to feel beautiful again and I know that I need to work on the inside also. If I am going to be able to have a successful R in the future I have to make changes within myself. If our H's fog clears and we have moved on it is sad for them. Some days I feel very discouraged and it is so tough just to go to work knowing that I might run into Ow. Did you see the posts for a few days ago that I received an e-mail from someone that wants to expose them. I am walking on eggshells.

You have a right to be frustrated. It is also tough with the holidays also. We pray and support each other.


Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09