(((((((HOPE)))))))) Glad to hear your H is seeing your daughter. That is great.
I have been going back and forth on my decision. There is no one else in the picture. I have just met people and have been introduced but no relationships. I know I am no where near ready for that. I still have deep feelings for H. That will take time to heal and diminish so that I can let someone else in when I am ready.
It is just crazy to see how our H's have put themselves in these positions for what? For someone who they will not be able to trust because they entered a relationship with someone who was already married. It is exactly what T2L posted earlier about someone who has an affair lowers their standards and is weak.
Then I read all of these stories from other ppl and their situations and the pain is so overwhelming. Life should not be about pain and suffering and deceit or lies. Life is a blessing, it should be prosperous and fun and fulfilling! We are waiting for our H to snap out of it. Some have waited years. But it took them no time to jump into their adulterous relationships, and leave us, and not look back. Why should we wait? What exactly are we waiting for? We are all beautiful women on the inside and outside. We deserve the best and nothing less. If our H cannot see that then that is their loss. And it will be too late when the fog clears.
Sorry for venting...just a bit frustrated.
Me35/H35 D16/SS14 M-1yr/known H 18yrs 1st Bomb: 4/26 OW35 2nd Bomb: 8/17 OW21 Moved out 8/21/08 H filed D on 9/9/08
God determines who walks into your life...it's up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.
