{{{{{{marisol}}}}}}}}}}] welcome back!!! we did miss you. glad you had a good holiday. We all survived. Wow your H is going down the tubes financially. My H's bank acct is down to $9. He is talking about taking money from his savings plan which really annoys me since he is just burning up credit card bills but he has no idea how to handle money financially. I understand that you are ready to drop the rope and move on. It is your decision. My only concern is take some time before you start a new relationship. We are so vulnerable right now and it is so easy to make mistakes because we are lonely. One friend of mine whose marriage broke up a month before mine, has jumped into a R recently and now she is even more messed up. She still have unresolved feelings for H even though she practically hates him. The guy she met is D and his wife was a WAW and he is still broken over the failure of the M.
Tread lightly!
My D15 is now seeing her father. Will see how that goes.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
