Help Please w/Email from / H ...CONTINUED..HELP

[MrsJJJ]

Those of you who replied to my first request for help regardng deciphering my WAS's email...thank you. I have not responded since nor sent him any of his requested items. Since my "nice' email regarding how the kids were and wanting to know how he was...etc Nothing more. H has replied twice. Neither one shows a sign of coming home..yet....but...here is his email from last night. Names with held for privacy.

<<Hi,

I'm just wondering if you sent any of the paperwork I asked for or if you even received any of my previous emails. If it is too much trouble and you are not going to send them to me I need to know that too so I can make some other kind of arrangement with the lenders which would be not even putting the house up for sale and just going straight to the foreclosure process. I also wanted my birth certificate to meet my Mom and [her husband] in Windsor a few weeks ago, but I didn't go because I don't need any kind of hassle crossing the border and I didn't want to bother you again about it. Any kind of response would be great.

Thanks,
J>>

I have not replied, however I have forward this information to my attorney and asked him...has my H been served yet...mainly for financial support and wake up my husband to make some serious choices. I am prepared to accept either. My attorney's reply...

<<In an attempt to save you money I tried service by registered mail. It appears that he is not cooperating - therefore, a process server will be serving him
asap. >>

My question is...if my H obviously has showed no signs of reconciling and from my understanding clearly wants a divorce...why is my H not cooperating to be served? I would think this is exactly what he wanted all along or is he not cooperating because he knows what he will have to face? Mind you, nothing will proceed if he doesn't sign and return them nor if he hasn't signed for them...then he is only speculating what he may be reading. Even if he does read them and wants the divorce...that doesn't mean this is the final settlement.

Any help would be appreciated,