You are not a victim in this situation. You have choices. You can have a very big say in how this unfolds. Try to look at this more from the vantage that you are choosing a healthier life for you and your children instead of it being a situation where your W is abandoning you.
I hope that makes sense. I hope it helps.
And, sorry friend, but Amy does a great job calling you on your crap. Listen to what she is saying and some of the interactions you have with W will improve. Less is more, in terms of your talking "at" her.
Hugs, Spitfire
You know me so well. This is the thing I need to overcome. It's hard. Abandonment.
