Hey Woog! Ahhh... the Uranus effect ey. I am so glad you get to keep your job and not have to move.. I was confused by your chart as I didnt see big moves/job change on the horizon right at this moment, so seems that is the case! And yes.. if it hadnt happened, your W would never have opened up and admitted that Nick wasnt worth sticking around for. Thats quite an admission.
Whats your plan now then.. now things are staying the same, but that you have this new information from her? Has it made you feel at all different, or are you still feeling a sense of loss?
Al x
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
Plan, I have no plan. For a few minutes I considered going to Greece for a little vacation, but decided that wasn't a good idea. Then Ireland, but figured I'd drink myself silly.
So, my plan is to keep breathing and see what happens.
She has shown absolutely no interest in anything resembling reengaging in a relationship other than as friendly coparents.
Ahhh... ok. But, at least she did say, he wasnt worth sticking around for! I'm sorry, but it made me smile at least. And at least you know, that the grass wasnt greener afterall for your W..
I am thinking of temporarily drinking myself silly.. at least between now and Christmas! Its a 180 for me, the one thing I never tried all year..its a do something different!
Joooooiiiin meeeeeeee.....*beckons eerily with bony finger*
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
So, I'm sitting here thinking that fate wants me to be alone. Who am I to fight fate?
A year ago my ex ripped out my heart and left. Sometime this past spring or early summer I grew another one only to have a twist of fate take it from me again.
Now.... I wonder why I would even allow myself to fall in love again. Someone once told me that bad things come in threes.... I'm not sure I could survive that third one.
I know that sounds sad and full of self pity. And perhaps there is a little of that, but really I just think it's best to be alone.
Woog, alone ain't so bad at least for now. It does have some good points. If you look for them. It doesn't have to be for always. After all you can be alone and married and I think thats worse. Heal your heart, find some peace. Nothing is written in stone yet. Time will tell. Patience my friend.
at least for now. It does have some good points. If you look for them.