Detach>Worse>Weird>Better ???

[Sophie]

The only time a dent will cause a reaction is when it affects the money in his wallet. They become very selfish, self-centered and money grubbing during all of this

So true, Snodderly...remember, he wanted me to 'take over' managing the bills (and was miraculously going to give me all the money to manage, when he didn't have it to manage himself?!).

I didn't 'fall' for it, and said I couldn't give anymore than I have 'risen to the occasion' to give already.

Next day, papers were filed at the courthouse.

A divorce from me isn't going to get him any more money....and even if it would...it wouldn't happen anytime soon.

I say he won't get any more money from me, not as fighting words....it's the truth. There is no more money for me to help him out with.

I seriously think his D papers were a threat and a childish reaction because that was the first serious issue that I did not rescue him from.

The papers seem like 'hate' mail or something.

So...maybe, a dent of reality has hit him. There's alway hope and a PMA for that, huh???