I have not yet replied to H and I am still thinking of what to reply.
Maybe no reply would tell him all he needs to know. Maybe life w/o TL at the end of a phone or an email might just find him fighting for air and a 'lifeline'. What you got to loose by trying this?
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15