Thanks y'all. Ok I maybe did something horrible today, maybe a couple things. H showed up at D9's OT time and went to OT with us. That was fun. Not. He used the time to tell me I'm slowing down the court case & running up the lawyer fees by insisting on hsing. Of course, I look at it that he is just as guilty as I am by insisting on public schooling and me moving to his town to do that. (Schools in our town super suck). So finally I smartened up and left him and said you'll bring D9 back right? and left. Wish I'd thought of that 10 minutes sooner.
Then I have no money until I get the first alimony/child support payment--my L is trying to get it asap. D9 has medicine she needs for $40 and the therapy for the kids tomorrow is $50. Although I realized later that my therapist will float me a one week loan until the payment comes in next week so that's good
Anyway H said he would leave it for me if I wrote a receipt for him so he could deduct it from the child support. I said Go write it yourself! I just wouldn't do it, so he didn't leave the money for the kids. I'm sure he blames me for that thinking all he wanted was a little receipt, but I'm just so tired of his crap.
When he came over today and was harassing me about how I'm denying reality about the house and the homeschooling and everything, (of course I think he's doing the same or more so by thinking hsing has cured the kid's autism and dyslexia.) I called him an idiot. The judge told him to get his stuff from the house and he was doing that and started a pile on the kitchen floor and I stuck a closet full of his crap on the top. Then I felt a little better. So that was my day.
So that was my day.