I am glad that I played a small part in setting you off in right direction and that you are now finding some happiness, but remember all the hard work was done by you.
For me I was fortunate that W had her epiphany moment before w started on the road to a D and since then it's been hard work to get to where we are but its paying off. It still sometimes feels like a bad dream but the painful parts gets less and less and easier to deal with.
As I see it now the future is what I make it, so I have to make it good.