Now let me throw this into the mix. The main reason I haven't talked to the kids about it is my wife has already tipped her hands as to what she'll do. She's deathly afraid of being the "bad guy", so if I were to mention her affair (no matter how it was couched) she's going to tell them what an a-hole I've been for 22 years. I don't really care that she thinks that (because some of it's true, but, she played a role in it, too... and, yes, while I'm changing for ME, she "ain't changing for nobody" and, unless she does, I don't want "us" back anyways, but I digress... and don't write as well as you) but I don't like how that plays out in front of the kids and truly don't know how much they need to know. Having said that, I'm less and less inclined to "protect" her. So, my question is this, in this set of circumstances, what's the more important end (a) not having the children have to be subjected to what could get ugly; or (b) letting them know what's going on BEFORE wife actually files? I guess part of what I'm trying to determine is where to draw the line in protecting the kids from the cr*ap that no kid should have to deal with and not living a lie in front of them?
Not sure I asked that right...
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