Finally a new wifey thread

[The Wifey]

I am ok right now. Its been a very long day so far. Considering I was up at 4 I'm not surprised.

Yesterday I had an interesting email from "Ginny." She is the woman that I suspected wanted more than just a friendship with my husband. He, of course, always said they were just friends, wanted nothing more, and had really backed way off from her because of how I felt about their friendship.

Apparently my instincts were right about her. She sent me an email set to notify her when it had been read. She told me that she had the ability to retract and delete the email after it was read, would deny ever sending it to me, and that my husband would believe her because he did want me any more.

Suffice it to say that she cut and pasted or blind carbon copied me on her reply to some recent emails between her and my H.

There wasn't anything awfully damaging in them, but enough to get the idea that they have talked more than he let on, and that she seemed to know an awful lot about our situation.

Damn if she didn't retract and delete the email too!

I did tell my h about it and he did believe me. He apologized that it happened and was completely floored that she would do this. He said, "My friendship with her has changed and basically right now I don't want her in my life at all."

He ended up in tears after we talked when I got home. I frankly felt like she was trying to drive me crazy so she could pursue my husband.

I just don't know how I should feel about it. At least I didn't go with my first instinct to drive to her house and beat her up. And I would have made sure her husband knew about her confiding in my husband about their problems. Strange, once I calmed down I felt really sorry for her. She is quite pitiful.

I'll write more on this later. I have to head out to meet someone for coffee on the way home.

I'm fine right at the moment. I've been working so hard and that has helped me keep busy.

KJ