BA- I don't know how you cope with the cold. I take it you don't build Jeff-snowmen and hug them? I have three duvets on my bed and am thinking I might need one more on top to stop myself getting shilly at night. I'm like the princess in the Princess and the Pea (LOL- that could actually be the story of my WAS and my S. One upon a time, there was a beautiful princess who married her prince but cooked too many peas!)
Sunshine- a change is what worries me. If H changes I'll have to change. That will be OK if it means me needing more detachment and moving away. The opposite is the worry, and I know you understand that.